I need to find a photo of the Christmas trees of my childhood. This Christmas card is a few years before my time--1913! |
It's the season to share memories. I have written about Christmas memories in the past, hopefully there is something new in this post.
Early in December we would head to an empty lot on Oleander
Drive where the Optimist Club, who sponsored Little League baseball at Hugh
McRae Park, sold trees. It was always dark. There, under bare lights strung up from
posts, we would make our way through the lot trying to find the perfect
tree. It was never an easy task as we all had our own favorite
ones. It couldn’t be too tall, as the ceiling in the living room was only
eight feet, or too short for that wouldn’t show much of a tree in front of the
picture window. We wanted neighbors and those driving down the road to
see and enjoy our tree. Nor could it be too expensive. There was so much to consider which makes
picking the tree a major feat, but it seems that we always found a perfect
one. Having settled on the tree, dad
would pay the men who were standing around a barrel where they were burning wood
scraps to stay warm (even though it was never that cold). We’d tie the
tree into the trunk and head home, happy and satisfied.
We never put the tree up right away. Dad felt that since these trees had come from Canada or somewhere way up north and had been cut for a few weeks, it needed water. So he would cut a few inches off the bottom of the trunk so that the tree could draw water and then sit the tree overnight in a pail of water. Putting up a tree was a two-night task.
The next evening, after dinner, we would decorate the
tree. Before bringing in the tree inside, my dad would lug the tree stand
into the living room and place it on a piece of plastic to protect the
floor. I am not sure where he kept the stand for ours was unlike any I
had ever seen before or since. Dad made
it himself. I don’t know what became of it after my parents
switched to artificial trees, but this was a stand to survive a nuclear
attack. It was built on a piece of plate steel, maybe 18 or 24 inches
square and 3/8 of an inch thick. Onto
this, he had welded a tube with a three or four inch in diameter pipe (another
tree requirement was that’s trunk had to fit into the pipe). He had
drilled and thread holes in the top where he ran bolts to hold the tree
upright. One of the problem with this
stand is that you couldn’t put much water into it, so after the first year, he
drilled holes into the first pipe, then welded on an eight inch metal pipe
around the first pipe. The second pipe
was a few inches shorter than the first and made it easy to add water and hold
water. The stand was so secure that the
tree itself would break before the stand would sway over. As a kid, I was a little embarrassed about
the tree stand. Why couldn’t we have a
flimsy store-brought stand like everyone else? As an adult, after having
several trees knocked over (first, when I was in my mid-20s, by a drunken guest,
then it was by Happy, the cat and the final time by Trisket, the dog), I see
the wisdom of such a solid foundation. I
have no idea what became of this stand.
My parents switched to artificial trees shortly after my siblings and I
vacated their home. Perhaps the stand
rusted away as a boat mooring. It could have held a battleship.
The first thing in decorating was putting up the lights. During
my childhood, instead of using miniature lights that are now so popular (and a
lot easier on the electric bill), we used screw-in lights with larger bulbs. These
bulbs not only burned a lot of electricity, they created a lot of heat so we
only turned the tree on when we were in the living room because to burn the
bulbs too much would risk drying it out and making the whole enterprise a fire
hazard. After the lights, we were
allowed to place ornaments on the tree. There
was a star that my dad would place on the top.
The final thing to go on the tree
was the icicles. My mom insisted that
each one of the foil icicles be hung individually, which meant the tree never
had enough icicles because we would tire of the task long before the tree was
covered.
On a table, we set out the nativity scene… the ceramic figures
crowded into a manager that my dad had built out of plywood (and looked a lot
like the three-sided shelters I’ve spent many a night in along the Appalachian
Trail). The living room, where the tree was at, was
full of activity in December as we spent as much time as possible marveling at
the tree. During the rest of the year,
the room was “off limits” except when we had company. It was the visiting room. But during those weeks from early December to
New Year’s Day (when the tree was taken down), the room was full of life. On Christmas morning, we were forbidden to
enter the room until my parents were up (they were always sleepy and the last
up and a few times we did slip in to see what was waiting around the
tree). When my father was ready, Super-8
movie camera in his hands with flood lights as bright as an atomic explosion,
we’d run in all excited only to quickly shield our eyes from the blinding lights,
as we checked out the presents from Santa (the unwrapped presents that circled
the tree). Favorite memories include an
AM-FM radio, a microscope, an erector-set, a lever-action BB gun, and a
bicycle. When I was 12, there was a rifle
(that is still in my gun safe but hasn’t been shot in decades) and the next
year there were golf clubs. Thanks to
having a much younger sibling, my brother and sister and I kept receiving “Santa
gifts” well until high school! After
checking out what Santa left, we’d open the wrapped presents and eat candy and
fruit. An hour or so later, my parents
would fix a big breakfast, but we were not that hungry. Afterwards, we’d play in the yard or get in
the car for the ride up to Pinehurst to see grandparents.
By Christmas night, we’d all be tired. One year, for some reason, I remember listing
to that AM-FM radio (that replaced my little 9 volt transistor radio) and they
were playing “Judy in Disguise with Glasses.”
May you have a Merry
Christmas!